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The Disease to Please by Harriet Braiker

The Disease to Please Harriet Braiker ebook
Page: 288
Format: pdf
Publisher: McGraw-Hill Companies, The
ISBN: 9780071385640

My biggest problem is saying no. When you have the disease to please, you live in fear, anxiety, and overwhelm. If so, you are In childhood, the disease to please causes us to turn against our precious identity in search of the praise and adoration from our parents. I was unclear if he was proud of it or just warning me. Getting a diagnosis is as easy as answering the following 4 questions: Do you say yes when you really want to say no? We climb the wrong ladders leaned against the wrong walls. Yes I will run that up for you today. You fear what others think about you, and you fear being a failure and not living up to the perfection model. All this month we have been in a message series titled, "Biggest Bible Buts". Last minute birthday no problem. Do you have the disease to please? When you are actually not sorry? People-pleasers whose distorted thinking is the predominant cause of their syndrome are ensnared in burdensome and self-defeating mindsets that perpetuate their disease to please problems. Years ago, I remember an old boyfriend telling me up front ….within the first few months of dating… that “I am a Pleaser.” He told me like it was some kind of identity badge. Are you someone who suffers from the “disease to please”? We search for happiness in the wrong places, often in a desperate attempt to people please. I can meet that deadline for you. Sure I can do some baking for the sale.